To the Kind-Hearted Person Who Knows They Deserve To Be Treated Better In ALL Their Relationships:
"Give Me 5 Hours & You'll Walk Away With The Knowledge & Confidence To Actually Deal With Difficult People!"
Great Relationships Aren't Automatic... They Are LEARNED!... one skill at a time!
Regardless Of What You Call It -- Bad Behavior... Difficult Person... Toxic Relationship... Or Being A Jerk:
There are Essential Relationship Skills Every Person Needs To Know so You Actually Spot Red Flags AND Have the Healthy Relationships You Want in Every Area of Your Life! Read on to see how you too Can Learn To Spot People with Toxic Behavior A Mile Away & Instead, Invest with Confidence in Relationships where People Value & Appreciate You!
With Results Like These:
"A lot of what I had learned from the [Jerk] course I was able to use in my life and it was definitely life-changing for me!"
"It's been about four years now so I took [the Jerk Program] again... I wanted to refresh this to help teach my son to be in a proper relationship!"
"One of the best courses I have ever taken!"
Having Any Kind Of Relationship (at home, work or other places) With A Person Who Is Behaving Like A Jerk Is Hard. Especially if you don't know how to identify the signs, right?! And if you're like most of the People I work with, you're really kind-hearted and you want to be valued and treated well...
...not underappreciated, disrespected or taken advantage of!
I get it. And here's the truth:
Whether you currently have a difficult or destructive relationship (ie; romantic, family, friendship, or work) or you've had a relationship with someone who acted like a jerk(ette) in the past...
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO KEEP GETTING INTO THE SAME KINDS OF HURTFUL RELATIONSHIPS OVER AND OVER AGAIN!
Think about it! You don't just go to a different gym every month hoping that this time you'll lose weight, do you? NO! Of course not! So then why would you ever assume that just because it's a new person that this time you'll be able to spot the red flags and they're going treat you better?
So if you're doing this...
(Simply starting a new relationship without learning what jerky behavior looks like -- whether romantically, with a friend, or getting a new boss -- hoping that you'll be able to spot it this time around then...
YOU'RE SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR MORE PAIN AND CONSTANTLY WONDERING IF IT'S REALLY YOUR FAULT...
...AND I'M A LITTLE WORRIED ABOUT YOUR HEART!
So heart-to-heart, I want to ask you... has it worked so far? If you're like most who come to start working with me, it's probably a "no."
But that's ok! Because when you're in a bad relationship cuz you don't know how to spot jerky behavior, sometimes it's as simple as learning how to see the red flags!
And you will start learning how to notice those signals sooner when you identify what destructive behavior actually look like through...
a program that teaches you about not just jerky behavior... but also healthy relationships!
ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM HAVING SOMEONE IN YOUR LIFE WHO HAS SOME 'JERKY' BEHAVIOR... OR ARE YOU TRYING TO AVOID THEM IN THE FUTURE?
If you're like most who have read this far, you're starting to see the possibility of this program called How To Avoid Falling For Jerks (or Jerkettes). And what it will do to help you not only avoid people with toxic behavior but also to develop healthier relationships at home, at work, or in your community... but you probably find yourself asking,
"How on earth am I supposed to spot the red flags of a destructive relationship?!"
What do I look for? What if I miss the signs?
And how do I make sure that I don't just write people off?! Good people that just made a mistake?!
It can feel so overwhelming and intimidating to learn this that you avoid getting started, distracting yourself by staying busy. And I get it.
But here's a little 'Insider Secret' for yah:
RELATIONSHIPS SKILLS AREN'T AUTOMATIC...
THEY ARE LEARNED!
...ONE STEP AT A TIME!
You see, there is a RECIPE for relationships. A repeatable process. And if you're missing these skills, you risk falling back into old relationship patterns and getting into destructive relationships again.
So, just like a classic riddle:
"How do you eat an elephant? A: One bite at a time."
We can ask a similar question:
HOW DO YOU LEARN HOW TO AVOID PEOPLE WHO ACT LIKE 'JERKS' AND CREATE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS?
Answer:
ONE. STEP. AT. A. TIME.
PLUS... each skill needs to be learned the right way!
So, what if you had a set of step-by-step instructions for each of those skills? Imagine if you could follow these steps so that there's no guesswork about whether you're learning the right skills... EVEN if you've never had healthy relationships before!
No more overwhelm!
No more wondering if someone is acting like a 'jerk' or not!
No more wasting time on relationships where people aren't going to change!
Imagine for just a moment...
...that you had a step-by-step process for learning EACH of the essential relationship skills to healthy relationships...
...imagine you could learn what these skills are in as little as 5 hours...
...You would have all the KNOWLEDGE you need to avoid people with toxic behavior and have healthier relationships after only 5 hours!
And you already know that once you learn it... you have foundational relationship principles that you can use anywhere! In fact, we (and our clients) use these exact principles for developing healthy relationships (or teaching others how to) in every area of our lives -- with spouses, teens and adult children, friends, colleagues, dating partners, and more! Isn't it great to learn relationship principles that can work for years to come?!
Wouldn't that be nice?
Well, you don't have to "imagine" any longer. Because... it's here.
INTRODUCING...
HOW TO AVOID FALLING FOR A JERK (or Jerkette)
by John Van Epp, PhD &
taught by Ann Visser
THE SIMPLE STEP-BY-STEP, RELATIONSHIP SYSTEM FOR LEARNING HOW TO AVOID PEOPLE WHO REPEATEDLY ACT LIKE 'JERKS' AND HAVE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS...
OR YOUR MONEY BACK!
Receive Detailed Training That Teaches You the Essential Relationship Skills You Need For Avoiding the People Who Repeatedly Act Like Jerks (or Jerkettes) in Your Life!
Understand What Is Toxic Behavior, When a Line Is Crossed & What You Can Do About It To Take the Overwhelm and Intimidation out of Learning Relationship Skills!
Learn John Van Epp's Proven Relationship Model for Not Just Avoiding Jerky Behavior, but Also For Building Fulfilling Relationships Where You Feel Valued!
Gain Tools to Teach Your Kids About Healthy Relationships & How to Identify Difficult People For Friendships, Romance & the Workplace!
...because you (and your kids) deserve to be valued, appreciated and treated well in every area of your life!
It's time to give yourself (and your kids!) the relationship knowledge and skills you both deserve! Just like it's done for our past participants:
"It Was Definitely Life-Changing For Me!"
"I was going through a lot at the time. And a lot of what I had learned from the course, I was able to use in my life and it was definitely life-changing for me. Very empowering and insightful. Whenever I heard that this was being offered again I definitely jumped on board because as we grow through life, through experiences, we change. So I decided to do this again and it was very powerful even the second time around!"
~ SHERI
"I Wanted To Refresh This To Help Teach My Son To Be In A Proper Relationship!"
"It's been amazing! I wanted to refresh this to help teach my son to be in a proper relationship... for everything, not even just romantic relationships, but for friendships and things like that as well. I've been dating but I've never actually introduced anyone to my son yet because of this program. I've learned that I need to commit first before anyone meets my son because I want him to see what a real relationship looks like!"
~ ALISHA
"Ann Is A Gifted Leader!"
"Ann's ability to create programming specific to the audience and their needs has made her a loved and welcomed teacher. The women are drawn to her honesty and humility and they respect her no-nonsense style of truth-telling. She has a terrific ability to adapt her program material to the audience and she recognizes when a group is tracking with her content. Ann's desire to communicate information relevant to the lives of our women is uppermost in her strategy. She does this exceptionally well!"
~ REV. CHERYL MILLMAN, Executive Director, Open Door Outreach
Each session of the How To Avoid Falling For A Jerk (or Jerkette) is laid out to walk you through the two key parts of learning healthy relationships: Learn what jerky behavior looks like! Learn what healthy relationships look like!
In each of the 5 sessions, you will receive teaching and exercises designed to equip you with the foundational relationship skills you need!
SEE WHAT YOU'LL BE LEARNING ONCE YOU JOIN THE PROGRAM...
Detailed LIVE training (with me) & practical exercises to learn the essential relationship skills for avoiding destructive relationships and developing healthy relationships instead!
SESSION 1: Thursdays @ 8:00 - 9:00 PM Atlantic Time (7-8pm Eastern Time)
A BIRD’S EYE VIEW OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS:
How Healthy Relationships Grow & Warning Signs Of Difficult People
Discover how to spot the red flags of toxic behavior so you know when a line is crossed and what you can do about it.
Inside How To Avoid Falling For A Jerk (or Jerkette), you won't just gain confidence to deal with difficult people. You'll also get step-by-step training walking you through exactly how healthy relationships develop so you don't have to wonder anymore about whether a relationship is good for you or not.
Imagine how much easier it will be to understand what toxic and healthy looks like when you can simply follow the powerful Relationship Attachment Model!
PLUS, THERE'S MORE!
YOU'RE NOT JUST GETTING THE "SIGNS" FOR AVOIDING JERKY BEHAVIOR, I'M GIVING YOU EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO HAVE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AT HOME, WORK, OR WITH FRIENDS OR FAMILY TOO!
SESSION 2: Thursdays @ 8:00 - 9:00 PM Atlantic Time (7-8pm Eastern Time)
YOU CAN’T MARRY JETHRO WITHOUT GETTING THE CLAMPETTS:
5 Essential Things You Need To Know About A Person For A Good Relationship Or For Love
I've been studying healthy relationships for over 20 years! This is one of the best programs for explaining & equipping you to have healthy relationships. In this section...
I'll Reveal How the Way Your Family Functioned Affects How You Do Relationships Today!
YOU'LL DISCOVER...
â–¶ WHY KNOWING THE F.A.C.E.S. OF A PERSON IS VITAL! Including: family background, conscience, and attitude!
â–¶ HOW BELIEFS, VALUES, THOUGHTS, OPINIONS & WAY OF DOING LIFE impact how people will behave in committed relationships!
â–¶ THE REAL TRUTH ABOUT "OUR PAST" and how it impacts our relationships today!
â–¶ 4 INGREDIENTS FOR CHANGE to help you make better decisions in your relationships... even if you're like most people thinking, "I'm scared to try again!"
...AND MORE!
SESSION 3: Thursdays @ 8:00 - 9:00 PM Atlantic Time (7-8pm Eastern Time)
THE INGREDIENTS FOR A LASTING RELATIONSHIP:
How Compatibility & Key Relationship Skills Create A Successful Recipe For Lasting Relationships.
"It's Not Just Enough to Love or Like Someone... it's Gotta Make Sense Too, Right?!"
Today, it's gotten a lot trickier to form new relationships.
Think about it! Our grandparents used to marry and create lifelong friendships with the people they grew up with.
What's your first impression about a person when you see a photo like this:
Successful? Hard-working? Potential partner for your daughter?
What if I told you he's unemployed and got fired from his last two jobs for showing up late every day... Would you want your son or daughter to date someone like that? Of course not!
So how do you know if someone will be toxic OR healthy in a relationship without going through pain and heartache?!
INSIDE HOW TO AVOID FALLING FOR A JERK, I WALK YOU THROUGH...
✔ TWO vital areas of compatibility that you need to explore!
✔ How to really get to know a person by seeing how they act around different people!
✔ Plus! Two critical relationship skills that will help you predict what a long-term relationship will look like!
SESSION 4: Thursdays @ 8:00 - 9:00 PM Atlantic Time (7-8pm Eastern Time)
WHY IS IT THAT EXPECTATIONS LEAD TO DISAPPOINTMENT:
How To Pace A Relationship So You Don't Get In Too Deep Too Quickly
The last thing you need is to "fall" for someone before you really know them and get hurt. Until you know how to pace a relationship, you won't ever know how to build trust in a healthy way!
That's Why We'll Be Going Through Step-by-Step How to Build Trust & Invest in Reliance Without Developing Expectations Too Quickly & Ending Up Disappointed!
If you can follow step-by-step, then you can learn how to slow down a relationship long enough to really get to know someone so you can predict what the relationship will be like!
SESSION 5: Thursdays @ 8:00 - 9:00 PM Atlantic Time (7-8pm Eastern Time)
PUT THE HORSE BEFORE THE CART:
How Commitment & Touch Need To Move Together For A Healthy Relationship
"It's Not Enough to Like The Little You See... You Need to See as Much of the Picture as Possible so You Know What You're Committing To!"
Slowing things down in a relationship is hard in a world that moves at the click of a button. But whether it's a business relationship, friendship, or romantic relationship, it's an essential skill to learn to see the real relationship patterns.
So how do you get to know someone without overcommitting and getting in too deep?!
INSIDE THE 5-WEEK PROGRAM, I WALK YOU THROUGH...
âž¡ What commitment looks like & 2 different staying powers of commitment!
âž¡ How commitment is different in the beginning vs later on in a relationship!
âž¡ 5 reasons why we stay in a relationship when we should get out!
âž¡ Plus! What the superglue of relationships is & how to use is wisely!
ENROLL IN HOW TO AVOID FALLING FOR A JERK (OR JERKETTE) TODAY!
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THE AMAZING GUARANTEE
THAT LETS YOU SLEEP EASILY AT NIGHT!
The fact that you're reading this section means you already know that learning to avoid toxic behavior from people will improve your life. But perhaps you still have some doubt. Hesitation. Risk. I get it. Like...
"This sounds too good to be true! How am I supposed to know this is really what I need?"
Well... that's simple. Try it.
GUARANTEE:
Test-Drive The Progam by Attending The 1st Live Session
When you enroll, you'll have a chance to see what the program is like! I'll mail you the workbook and you can even attend the 1st session live, and if for any reason... I mean any reason... if you don't feel like this is the best investment you've made to avoid jerks and learn how to have healthy relationships, simply email me at [email protected] and I'll gladly refund your entire investment... no questions asked! Yes, this means you could completely rip me off!
OK, LET'S RECAP!
When you join the How To Avoid Falling For A Jerk (or Jerkette) Program by Dr. John Van Epp that I'll be teaching, you'll learn not only how to avoid destructive relationships but you'll also learn how to build healthy relationships! Including...
Here is what's included (Limited to 10 Spots!):
✅ 5 LIVE 1-hour sessions with Ann (note: there will be NO recordings for any sessions) - Single 1:1 session with Ann costs $150 CAD!
✅ Full-colour workbook written by Dr. John Van Epp to help you apply what you're learning (note: workbook will be shipped to you after purchase & IS included in the cost) - Workbook costs approx. $19 CAD + tax + shipping!
✅ Confidentiality to create a safe learning space & no judgment zone (meaning, Ann will be the only person on camera & speaking up is completely optional for participants) - Hiring a good counsellor or therapist often starts at a min. of $100 CAD/session!
✅ Save you (or your kids) time, energy, grief, and money (avoid court, costly divorce, or an expensive business mistake) by avoiding jerky behavior - Saving yourself from soul-sucking relationships is a priceless investment!
✅ Optional - opportunity to ask questions LIVE about toxic & healthy relationships and receive real-time answers from Ann's 20+ years of experience - Access to Ann's 20+ years of knowledge is invaluable!
This makes everything you get priceless in value! You can't put a price tag on the heartache and money you'll save yourself (and your kids) by avoiding people who will steal your soul away.
And you can get it all for just $299.98 CAD $149.99 CAD today (& pay the 2nd payment of $149.99 CAD next month!)!
ENROLL IN HOW TO AVOID FALLING FOR A JERK (OR JERKETTE) TODAY!
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JUST IN CAST I MISSED SOMETHING, HERE ARE SOME COMMONLY ASKED QUESTIONS!
Is This Program Just For Romantic Relationships?
Will You Be Recording The Live Calls?
What Happens If I Can't Make All Of The 5 Sessions?
Do I Have To Show My Face During The Live Sessions?
How Do I Get The Workbook?
How Do I Pay?
Do I Have To Pay In Full Right Away?
I Don't Like The Word "Jerk." Is This Program Still For Me?
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